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For the wolf of a writer, the family is a crowd of sitting ducks. There they assemble at the Thanksgiving table, poor dears — blithering uncles, drugged-out siblings, warring couples — posing for a painting, though they do not know it. The objects of the writer’s scrutiny may be as blameless as a day in Williamstown, but in the story he has in mind, the writer, being the freak he is, will infuse his family with warts and all, because defects make for better reading than virtues.

Three Quotes by Henry James

When teaching anything in the Modernism era (e.g. “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” and The Sun Also Rises), I always like to use these quotes by Henry James in order to explain, in some small way, how those who lived through the period responded. (Credit goes to my dear Azar Nafisi for first including them in her chapter on Henry James in Reading Lolita in Tehran.)

In a March 21, 1915 interview with the New York Times, James said:

The war has used up words; they have weakened, they have deteriorated like motor car tires; they have, like millions of other things, been more overstrained and knocked about and voided of the happy semblance during the last six months than in all the long ages before, and we are now confronted with a depreciation of all our terms, or, otherwise speaking, with a loss of expression through increase of limpness, that may well make us wonder what ghosts will be left to walk.

In a letter to Clare Sheridan, a friend whose new husband was killed in World War I, he wrote:

I am incapable of telling you not to repine and rebel, because I have so, to my cost, the imagination of all things, and because I am incapable of telling you not to feel. Feel, feel I say—feel for all you’re worth, and even if it half kills you, for that is the only way to live, especially to live at this terrible pressure, and the only way to honour and celebrate these admirable beings who are our pride and our inspiration.

And last, James said of the death of English poet Rupert Brooke:

I confess that I have no philosophy, nor piety, nor patience, no art of reflection, no theory of compensation to meet things so hideous, so cruel, and so mad, they are just unspeakably horrible and irremediable to me and I stare at them with angry and almost blighted eyes.

Thank you, Azar Nafisi. If you haven’t read her book, do it NOW. If you haven’t heard her speak, find a way to see her. You won’t regret it. (Nor will you regret studying Modernism, I hope. It’s quite possibly my favorite period of literature to study.)

Joel Stein Is A Sexist Ass

annaetc:

fozmeadows:

Cards on the table: I had never heard of Joel Stein until five minutes ago. Nonetheless, having just read his oh-so-condescending op-ed for the NY Times on why, in his estimation, adults shouldn’t read YA, I feel qualified to make the above assertion. 

Why a sexist ass, you ask, instead of just the regular kind? Because certainly, his regular assishness isn’t in doubt. After all, any adult who’ll personally vouch for the suckiness of an activity he refuses to try on the grounds of having intuited said suckiness from afar - much like a toddler declaring his undying hatred for unfamiliar vegetables - is clearly deserving of intellectual mockery. But where in that is the sexism?

By way of answer, allow me to compare Joel’s opening paragraph - 

The only thing more embarrassing than catching a guy on the plane looking at pornography on his computer is seeing a guy on the plane reading “The Hunger Games.” Or a Twilight book. Or Harry Potter. The only time I’m O.K. with an adult holding a children’s book is if he’s moving his mouth as he reads. 

with his last:

Let’s have the decency to let tween girls have their own little world of vampires and child wizards and games you play when hungry. Let’s not pump Justin Bieber in our Saabs and get engaged at Cinderella’s Castle at Disneyland. Because it’s embarrassing. You can’t take an adult seriously when he’s debating you over why Twilight vampires are O.K. with sunlight. 

The bolding is mine; take note of it! Because rather than a critique of the content of YA novels, what this piece actually represents is the following assertion: that it’s fundamentally embarrassing for grown men to share any interests whatever with teenage girls. In fact, according to Joel, it is actually more embarrassing for a man to identify with a teen girl via the medium of literature than if he were publicly demeaning and sexualising her via the medium of pornography! 

In five paragraphs, the only gender pronouns he uses are in those paragraphs: male to describe the adults who shouldn’t read YA, and female to describe the intended readership of the books to which he’s specifically objecting. Five paragraphs does not a lengthy article make. Certainly, it’s not long enough to enter into a nuanced discussion of why adults read YA (what then, I wonder, does Joel make of the adults who write it? or does he imagine that YA books spring full-fledged from the legs of hipsters, like Athena sprang from Zeus?), the changing face of the genre, or anything approaching an intelligent, reasoned argument.

It is, however, more than long enough to demonstrate his sexist credentials, and the nature of his real fear, which is that men might voluntarily be enjoying stuff written for girls. Oh noes! The horror! What could be worse than adult men identifying with the demographic they’ve historically most oppressed! GENDER EMPATHY IS SCARY AND TERRIBLE AND UNMASCULINE AND PLANES WILL FALL FROM THE SKY.

Those damn tween girls with their Bieber and their Twilights. Next thing you know, they’ll be wanting the vote and refusing to act in pornography. The HUSSIES. 

This is an accurate summation of my thoughts re: Stein’s “op-ed” about YA lit.

The longer she lives alone, she said, the less flexible she becomes — and the less considerate of others’ needs. ‘If I go on vacation with a group of friends, I feel a little overwhelmed,’ she said. ‘I’ve got to share this room with other people? We have to organize showers?’

The Freedom, and Perils, of Living Alone - NYTimes.com (via annaetc)

I’m messy. I invite fewer people over. And I really don’t know how to let men sleep in my bed.

(via annaetc)

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How Target Knows You’re Pregnant
Writing for The New York Times, Charles Duhigg examines how retailers collect your data and, using the science of habit formation, analyze it to make a profit:

About a year after Pole created his pregnancy-prediction model, a man walked into a Target outside Minneapolis and demanded to see the manager. He was clutching coupons that had been sent to his daughter, and he was angry, according to an employee who participated in the conversation.
“My daughter got this in the mail!” he said. “She’s still in high school, and you’re sending her coupons for baby clothes and cribs? Are you trying to encourage her to get pregnant?”
The manager didn’t have any idea what the man was talking about. He looked at the mailer. Sure enough, it was addressed to the man’s daughter and contained advertisements for maternity clothing, nursery furniture and pictures of smiling infants. The manager apologized and then called a few days later to apologize again.
On the phone, though, the father was somewhat abashed. “I had a talk with my daughter,” he said. “It turns out there’s been some activities in my house I haven’t been completely aware of. She’s due in August. I owe you an apology.”

 Read the full article here. 

Whoa. Whoa. WHOA.

It’s about more than just pregnancy. It’s about habits—and how hard it is to break them.

motherjones:

rtnt:

How Target Knows You’re Pregnant

Writing for The New York Times, Charles Duhigg examines how retailers collect your data and, using the science of habit formation, analyze it to make a profit:

About a year after Pole created his pregnancy-prediction model, a man walked into a Target outside Minneapolis and demanded to see the manager. He was clutching coupons that had been sent to his daughter, and he was angry, according to an employee who participated in the conversation.

“My daughter got this in the mail!” he said. “She’s still in high school, and you’re sending her coupons for baby clothes and cribs? Are you trying to encourage her to get pregnant?”

The manager didn’t have any idea what the man was talking about. He looked at the mailer. Sure enough, it was addressed to the man’s daughter and contained advertisements for maternity clothing, nursery furniture and pictures of smiling infants. The manager apologized and then called a few days later to apologize again.

On the phone, though, the father was somewhat abashed. “I had a talk with my daughter,” he said. “It turns out there’s been some activities in my house I haven’t been completely aware of. She’s due in August. I owe you an apology.”

Read the full article here.

Whoa. Whoa. WHOA.

It’s about more than just pregnancy. It’s about habits—and how hard it is to break them.

New York Times: 100 Notable Books of 2011
The usuals are on here: Chad Harbach’s The Art of Fielding, Jeffrey Eugenides’s The Marriage Plot, Haruki Murakami’s 1Q84, David Foster Wallace’s The Pale King (was that really this year?), and Joan Didion’s Blue Nights. But also, Jonathan Lethem’s The Ecstasy of Influence and Christopher Hitchens’s Arguably (which I picked up yesterday).
I know we’re all soon to be inundated with year-end lists, but the book lists (and music lists!) are always my favorites. Too bad I’ve been far too busy with grad school to read any of these yet.

New York Times: 100 Notable Books of 2011

The usuals are on here: Chad Harbach’s The Art of Fielding, Jeffrey Eugenides’s The Marriage Plot, Haruki Murakami’s 1Q84, David Foster Wallace’s The Pale King (was that really this year?), and Joan Didion’s Blue Nights. But also, Jonathan Lethem’s The Ecstasy of Influence and Christopher Hitchens’s Arguably (which I picked up yesterday).

I know we’re all soon to be inundated with year-end lists, but the book lists (and music lists!) are always my favorites. Too bad I’ve been far too busy with grad school to read any of these yet.

Mlle Hazelwood

Reader & Writer, Master of Fine Arts, Collaborator on Structure and Style, a new poetry blog.

 

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